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The relationship between a sugar daddy and sugar baby is referred to as an 'arrangement' and the payment that exchanges hands is called an 'allowance.' 

Angela told us: 'You are able to be much more upfront than you would be on a normal dating site.'

'So where you would say on a normal profile that you like long walks on the beach, instead, a sugar daddy might say, "I want someone blonde and conservative with a degree, who has a set of manners that can be presented to my business partners".

Seeking Arrangement spokesperson Angela Jacob Bermudo reveals all exclusively to Femail

'It also means the sugar babies can do that. They can say, "I want to be paid for my flat, I want it bought for me, I want to go shopping every week and I want a spa trip". 

'They have to agree the terms and then come to an arrangement.' 

Here, Angela reveals the dos and don'ts for a woman wanting to bag a sugar daddy... 


What is an arrangement?

An arrangement is a non-traditional relationship. It relies on rules and boundaries set by both the sugar daddy and sugar baby. In order to have to play in the 'sugar bowl', as we call it, or even have a successful arrangement, you have to respect these 'terms' that you decide beforehand.


Tips for every new sugar daddy or sugar baby?

 Women should never enter the sugar baby lifestyle when their in desperate need. Remember that there is a relationship involved - sugaring isn't quick cash at the start. No flip-flopping on the terms of your arrangement once it starts.

It's just as important for sugar daddies to check out a woman's details before agreeing to a date, as it is for a woman.


What does it take to be a sugar baby?

You have to be sophisticated and devilishly fun at the same time. Most of these men are looking for an escape from their daily lives, but also need someone presentable - you never know who you'll run into.

Never talk money on the first date. It's a delicate balance between being aloof and seeming absolutely attracted to your sugar daddy. Never talk about body or health issues.


Student finance 2.0? 

 According to latest figures cash-strapped female university students are flocking to the site in a bid to find someone to pay off loans and tuition fees.The founder of Sugar Daddy Catch, Nick Ferron, 44, claims 1.4 million profiles on his website belong to students worldwide.


What does it take to be a sugar daddy?

Sugar daddies must be generous, so some disposable income. You also need to understand that these aren't regular relationships, which is great for many men. No more jealousy or having to check in if you plan on having a late night out with the lads.


Etiquette notes for dating married sugar daddies

Married men that seek out the lifestyle are usually missing something in their relationships. It's the spark, that spontaneity before they settled down. Where mistresses try to steal husbands away from the home, Sugar Babies try to fulfill what's lacking so that husbands will stay with their wives.

As a sugar baby, your job is to do the things the wife might not have time or the energy to do, like go to the cinema, go dancing, go sailing, or even having a night out in the town.


Quick tips for dating married sugar daddies

Never be the one to call, even if it's his cellphone, and certainly do not call his home number.

Keep drama at an absolute minimum. If he misses a date, be understanding.

You will be his confidant, so listen if there are problems at home and help him resolve them.

Don't wear strong perfume or lipstick that will stain.


How to upgrade your allowance by $1,000, $2,000, or even $10,000

Sugar babies should approach asking for a higher allowance like you would a raise at work. Think of the justification and reasoning.

Has the frequency of your meetings increased? Have you had to open up your schedule due to a change in his? Asking for an increase in allowance directly after receiving the first in any arrangement can be seen as unappreciative, and is therefore highly discouraged.

How you ask is part of the art. I usually recommend doing on when on a sexy holiday together or during a spa visit, essentially anytime that the two of you are alone and he can be reminded of how much he enjoys your company. Since you are trying to convince him that he wants more of it.

Allowance raises of $5,000 or more need some bigger reason, such as moving cities to be closer to your sugar daddy or agreeing to see him exclusively. However, if you have a certain goal like getting your Master's degree or buying a home, sugar daddies are often happy to raise the allowance if you have been together long enough.

Keep in mind that the other person is not required to amend the agreement according to your needs. Rather it is a request to revisit the terms of the arrangement.